We all strive for good relationships in all fields of our life because without good and effective relationships it becomes very hard to survive in the society. Good and healthy relationships are also essential for our physical and mental health but we often lack these kinds of healthy and long lasting relationships whther it comes to friends, family or husband wife. You can have troubles with any of your relationship. There has been a great research going on which emphasis on finding the true parameters of a healthy relationship and surprisingly they have come to know some very basic things which almost every one of us knows but we often forget to implement those facts in our daily lives and screw our relationships. Following are some of the basic rules which can create magic for your relationship.
Responsibility from Both Ends
Feeling yourself responsible is very crucial in relationships and no matter which relationship you are talking about but you must feel yourself responsible at one end. Take care of certain things for example if it is relationship with your little sister then, instead of just playing the blame game that she made boyfriend whom you do not like you should take some responsibility and say that if I am wrong then, let it be and listen to your sister whole story carefully and without any biasing make the decision with your full responsibility which is to keep your little sister happy and safe.
Talking rudely and considering yourself always right is not the ways to handle any relationship whether it is relationship with your elder, with your Youngers or with your mates but you need to be polite and proactive about your thoughts.
If you start feeling yourself responsible then, it will allow you to find some mutual agreements which will be beneficial for the both parties. If you are really after flourishing your relationships then, add some responsibility in those relationships and things will start to get better.
Enhance Communication between Your Relationships
Communication failure is another thing which causes chaos in relationships because most of the people take communication in a negative perspective and they think that they conveyed their idea, their thoughts and their rules which completes their communication but this is just one half of the communication and you are missing the other half which is listening and understanding the thoughts and ideas of other party. You need to stop thinking that everyone around you also thinks as your do because this is the worst approach which your mind often convinces you to adopt but you need not to adopt it.
Even if you need to reject their idea then, first listen to them carefully and then give a logical explanation of your rejection. You need to understand the differences between the both parties. You may be on different grounds while the other one may be on totally different grounds. If you are able to understand and cope with these differences then, you can certainly make that relationship work for you.
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