Friday, May 9, 2014

Revive Your Relationship - Making Your Husband-Wife Relationship Stronger # 1

Rules Are To Be Followed
Every relationship works around a certain set of rules and if you start forgetting about those rules then, things will start to become problematic. We need some rules for our social safety and security similarly, you need some rules to work with your colleagues, your partner and even with your kids. These rules are very important in husband wife relationship and both the parties should lay down these rules with mutual understanding and both should respect those rules. In other words you can say that you need to be very clear with the other person and tell him or her in advance that these are the things which should be never committed in this relationship. 

Most of the times problem starts when people do not tell each other their differences and the other person keeps guessing the reason of other person’s anxiety. For example instead of sitting in car and making different red faces, you should tell your partner that you need to go under or above a certain speed and the problem will be solved and you will face no stress in the end. Similarly, if you are a husband then, you can say that I always need some fresh juice in the fridge because I like to drink it throughout the and this will make the life for both of you lot easier because you both will start to know each other’s needs and will start to respect those needs as well.

Happy Housemates
Love is an important element in making the relationship grow but if you start thinking that love is the only thing which can make your relationship grow then, you are mistaken because there are so many other things and especially when you start living under one roof then, there is a certain set of responsibilities on both heads. You need to make yourself a part of that house and start working for its betterment. If you are husband then, you should not be shy to work in your house and help your wife in every day’s cores like dusting, cleaning the pool, making breakfast and other similar activities. Similarly if you are a wife then, it becomes your duty to help your husband in releasing the every day’s stress. You need to greet him well in the house instead of just watching him and start shouting. When he comes back home after a tiring day at office then, he do not need much more than a coffee and a smiling wife. If he can get that then, it will give him a feeling that his whole day’s work is paid and he has worked for a better cause.

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