Anger Management - BREAK THE ANGER CYCLE BY TEACHING YOUR CHILDREN POSITIVE WAYS OF DEALING WITH ANGER

Children are learning from their parents all of the time, even when we forget that
they are there they are still watching and learning from our behaviour and how we
handle certain situations. To display road rage while your child is in the car is
displaying to your child a negative way to deal with anger, and your child will
possibly follow your example. In order, therefore, to teach our children to deal
with anger in a positive way, we must lead by example.

When dealing with a very young child it is important to remember that they are
still learning how to deal with emotions, and if you deal with their tantrums by
getting angry yourself, you are really teaching them that it is ok to do so. Try and
remain calm when dealing with angry children, (I know it’s easier said than done
sometimes), and you will teach them that there is a way to work through anger
and control it so that it doesn’t have to become out of control.

Everyone gets angry for a reason, even children, and an important step is to find
out the reason for the anger. If you can talk to your child about these reasons you
may find that you can help them to deal with it in another way. It may be that
another problem, at school or with friends is the real cause for the anger, and it
might be something which can be solved with a little adult help and advice.

Do not fall into the trap of reacting to anger with anger. Patience and
understanding are much more positive reactions, and hopefully once the child
realises that he or she is in a safe, secure and loving environment there is no need
to show uncontrollable anger at all.


Regards,
Fermi Mirza Alfarisi
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