Teen Anger Management Strategies

Being a teenager is, without a doubt, a very difficult time in one’s life. You find yourself caught between childhood and adulthood, you want more freedom and to be treated as an adult, at the same time as completely shunning responsibility and doing as little as possible to contribute to day to day living. Living with a teenager is also an extremely difficult period (or can be) if you don’t handle the situation correctly, which is why teen anger management strategies are very important, if they don’t come to you naturally then you really do have to learn, and fast, for the good of the whole family.

The first thing you must remember when dealing with teenagers is that they will look for a loophole in every task you set, and so leaving them to exploit the loophole and then blow up at them is a very common but avoidable situation. What happens when you shout at your teenager? Easy, the teenager shouts back, communication ends with lots of stamping out and door slamming and you’re right back to where you started.  Teen anger management requires a little more thought, at least until you successfully train your teenager into your way of thinking.

Let’s look at an example. How many times do you tell your teenager to clean their room before it is done? Plenty I’ll bet you. The trouble is, you may tell your teenager over and over again to clean the room, but without a strict timetable that you make sure they adhere to, they will inevitably put it off until tomorrow over and over again, until you can’t even open the door for clutter and you eventually blow a fuse. When laying down a rule make sure you don’t offer any room for manoeuvre to successfully control teen anger management. Say a day and a time, say Saturday mornings, and they are not permitted to go out or have friends around until it is done, and stick to it. Inspect the room for the first few weekends until the routine has become established, and then only every now and then to keep them on their toes, if they think that they can wrap you around their little finger they will, and you know it.

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Fermi Mirza Alfarisi

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